The Odette Tote

I bought it for one event and now it's the thing I reach for constantly — dressed up or with sandals for the shops. It's become a wardrobe staple, not a one-off.

I've given up on finding sandals that don't hurt by lunchtime. These I forget I'm wearing — and they still look like something, not like orthopaedic shoes.

I'm fussy about jewellery — cheap pieces always look cheap. These have a real weight to them and sit beautifully. They've become my everyday pair.

I never see clothes modelled on women who look like me. Putting this on and seeing myself in the mirror — that was the moment. It just works.

I nearly didn't order white — 'not at my age.' I'm so glad I did. It sits beautifully and I feel put together, not like I'm trying too hard.

I usually avoid loose styles — they make me look bigger, not relaxed. This drapes properly and skims instead of adding bulk. Finally a piece that's easy without swamping me.

I ran my hand over them before I even tried them on. Proper stitching, real substance. I wear them every single day now — with everything.

I always play it safe with dark colours. This is the first bright thing I've bought in years and I feel like myself again in it. Three people asked where it was from.